::Remnants of broken relationships - what to do with them!
2:11 p.m. - 2007-04-07
Sometimes you get the best feeling in your tummy when you do the opposite of everything you're actually expected to do.
I've never really been a fan of taking back whatever i've given to any of my past boyfriends. I don't deem it necessary and i think its fairly juvenile.
Furthermore there is some glee in seeing them still use these things or hold ownership over it and you sense you have some control over them. At least your purchasing power does.
I felt this way 3 weeks ago when i saw pictures of an ex-boyfriend on his Friendster with his new girlfriend wearing the shirt i bought him. Guess what? The girlfriend was wearing a matching shirt too. I hope the poor girl doesn't know who got him that shirt cos i'm not too sure if she'll still want to be matching him with hers after that.
It gave me this sickening kind of a good feeling, knowing that i am still one up. I don't wear anything any of my past boyfriends gave me. Hell, they didn't give me very much to begin with.
Anyhow, after my last relationship,where i got dumped for not being ready for a relationship and heard of accounts of the same asshole out with girls, cuddling for the next few days, my sisters(the G-unit), decided to tell him to return everything i gave him.
Actually, not everything but just this Crumpler bag and a Limited Edition Mohammed Ali, Adidas Jacket. The reason being that i gave him both for his birthday and he dumped me the day after.
I've not asked him for it myself and i don't even want it anymore though all my friends keep insisting i should. I don't think i want to have anything to do with it but i left my sisters to do whatever they want, because he doesn't matter to me, they do.
Anyhow, he messages me today, claiming that i should stop asking my sisters to ask for my stuff so many times and that he will return it to me himself.
I got a little pissed off at him because i have in no way suggested i want those things back and if i did, i'd have asked him myself. What my sisters chose to do is their own issue and they were only looking out for me.
Plus, he was the one who even staked my sister out in the first place. Can you imagine that after the jerk dumps me, he goes to Friendster and messages my sister, acting like an innocent prick who finds all these things beyond him. Imagine his horror when my sister catches him at Tekka Mall with some girl. Karma.
So i told him off and guess what? He messages my sister this..
I think this is the classic feel-good moment for me..
"But unless your sis wants them back, i don't see the point in returning. Cos she bought them for me.they're mine now! don't see the point still!
And then you know that one day, you're likely to see him outside with some chic carrying matching bags and that good feeling will resurface in your tummy.
You know what asshole? Take it as charity. My sisters and i have better things to do than to get into a tug of war for material possessions with you.
If anyone is about to ram my tagboard and go on about what a heartless, materialistic bitch i am, don't bother. I am heartless when it comes to this asshole because he stabbed my heart and threw it out anyway. Oh and word does get around love. I don't understand how i should blame myself for losing you when last i remember, you ended things and you were dating like the very next day(maybe even the day itsef!). Hmm.. I'm trying to think really really hard. Blame myself? Geez.
